If you want you could install the sysstat package, once installed service sysstat start and then sar -n EDEV 1 30 --iface=wan,wan6,eth2 during the test (1 = intervall in sec | 30 = duration in sec).
Anyway, that there are no drops or errors showing could mean:
kernel does not account error | drop frames due to some unset kconfig flag and those statistics are not available - but I am not sure whether there is a particular flag (similar to Where are iftop, iotop, nethogs and friends?)
frames not being dropped by the TO kernel
frames are somehow (erroneously) dropped by (potentially buggy) port driver (mvneta) and not reported to the kernel - but then it should likely happen also with SFP setup
frames being dropped by the modem for some reason
Not sure whether worth the effort, a packet dump audit might yield some insight. If you are familiar with wireshark you could could do a remote ssh capture from the W10 desktop on TOβs eth2 port and see what happens to packets during the WAN iperf3 test.
Same for the modem (port) if it provides a ssh server.